sex therapy

Reclaim intimacy. Reignite connection.

Sex therapy helps individuals and couples overcome challenges, improve intimacy and create a more fulfilling and connected sex life.

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How sex therapy can help

Improve intimacy

Rebuild emotional and physical closeness.

Address sexual difficulties

Work through challenges such as low desire, pain or performance anxiety.

Enhance communication

Talk openly about desires, needs and boundaries.

Heal from past experiences

Address the impact of trauma, shame or negative beliefs.

Rebuild trust and connection

Strengthen your bond and feel close again in and out of the bedroom.

Create a more fulfilling sex life

Discover what brings pleasure and build a satisfying, healthy intimacy.

The My Therapy difference

Because intimacy extends beyond the session hour.

  • Healing happens in your everyday life — not just in the therapy room.
  • Access to Therapist in Your Pocket through your chosen support plan.
  • Practical tools and resources tailored to your journey.
  • Track your progress with tangible, data-driven results.
  • Therapeutic prompts, worksheets and insights for reflection.
  • We believe a patient can’t fail therapy, but therapy can fail a patient — therefore therapy is tailored around you. You are not forced to fit the textbook.
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Illustrative Therapist in Your Pocket app, with guided exercises, daily prompts, therapeutic tools and progress tracking

Our approach

Approaches we use

  • Universal Integralism Based Sexuality Therapy
  • Integrative Sex & Couple Therapy
  • CBT Based Sex Therapy
  • Trauma Informed Sexuality Therapy

We can help with

Support for what matters to you.

  • Arousal problems
  • Delayed ejaculation
  • Erection problems (e.g. ED)
  • Genital deformities
  • Low libido
  • Menstruation issues
  • Orgasm difficulties
  • Painful sex
  • Penetration difficulties
  • Performance anxiety
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Prostate problems
  • Sex and ageing
  • Sex and teenagers
  • Sexual diseases (STI/STD)
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The roles of sex in your life.

Sexuality can involve enjoyment and playfulness, wellbeing, bonding and connection, and reproduction. Therapy gives you space to explore what matters to you, without pressure or assumptions.

Where a concern needs medical assessment, discuss the appropriate medical care alongside therapeutic support with your practitioner.

Our therapy approaches

Tailored to you.
Focused on real change.

Evidence-based. Trauma-informed. Person-centred.

EMDR

Helps reprocess traumatic memories so they no longer hold you back.

EFT

Gentle, effective techniques to release emotional distress and restore balance.

DBT

Builds emotional regulation, distress tolerance and interpersonal skills.

CBT

Identifies and changes unhelpful thoughts and behaviours.

Hypnotherapy

Access the power of your subconscious to create meaningful and lasting change.

Timeline therapy

Transform past experiences and create a future with confidence.

RST (Rational Strategic Therapy)

Practical, goal-focused strategies for real-world challenges.

AEDP

Deep, transformational work that integrates emotions, attachment and healing.

Somatic approaches

Body-based techniques to release tension and regulate your nervous system.

No one approach fits everyone.

We integrate what works best for you.

Evidence-based

Proven methods for meaningful results.

Person-centred

Your story, your goals, your journey.

Trauma-informed

Safety, compassion and respect at the core of everything.

Hope. Healing. Transformation.

We’re with you every step.

Your therapy journey

A clear path from healing to thriving.

  1. 1Feeling safe & supported
  2. 2Regaining control
  3. 3Understanding your patterns
  4. 4Healing & reprocessing
  5. 5Transforming & starting fresh
  6. 6Building resilience & independence
  7. 7Designing a life worth living

People behind your care.

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Riaan van WykMeet Riaan

Riaan van Wyk

Integrative Psychotherapist, Traumatologist, Sexologist and Relationship Specialist

Practical, goal-oriented support. A conversation at your pace.

Online or in person · Pretoria East

Anna-Mart van WykMeet Anna-Mart

Anna-Mart van Wyk

Clinical Hypnotherapist, Trauma Therapist, Therapist in Your Pocket Clinician

A whole-person approach, shaped around your story.

Online sessions · Therapist in Your Pocket

“Riaan guides you to heal yourself with perspective and practical application. He matched my pace and took my wounds as seriously and critically as I did.”
Amaris · South AfricaRead client experiencesIndividual experiences differ.

Professional background

Surrey College crest
Surrey CollegeClinical Hypnotherapy
& Psychotherapy
International Coaching Council ICC emblem
ICC — celebrating 30 years anniversary badge, from the supplied artwork
International
Coaching Council
Established in 1994
Meet our practitioners and read their qualifications

Media & professional features

In conversation. In the community.

VIA · DStv channel 147
VIA · DStv channel 147
iono.fm
iono.fm
Tuks FM 107.2
Tuks FM 107.2
Academy for Sexology
Academy for Sexology
Council for Sexual Health Professions
Council for Sexual Health Professions
LifeLine
LifeLine
RSG radio
RSG radio
CapeTalk radio
CapeTalk radio
702 talk radio
702 talk radio
Psychology Today
Psychology Today
Tuks FM 107.2
On airAnna-Mart van Wyk in conversation on Tuks FM 107.2Interview broadcast Thursday 8 October 2026 · 17 minutes

Media appearances, community connections and professional organisations featured by the practice.

Wherever you’re starting from,
you don’t have to figure it out alone.

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